My parents are giving me the down payment. Will the lender have a problem with that?
Answered by Rajiv Verma, Mortgage Broker · Updated August 2026 · About a 4 minute read
The direct answer
No — gifted down payments are completely normal, and in Brampton they are close to standard for first-time buyers. What the lender needs is proof that it is genuinely a gift and not a loan you have to repay. That means a signed gift letter, evidence of where the money came from, and confirmation it has landed in your account before closing. Handled at the start it is a non-event. Discovered a week before closing, it becomes the thing that delays your deal.
THE SHORT VERSION
- Gifts from immediate family are accepted by essentially every lender
- It must be a true gift — no repayment, no side arrangement
- You’ll need a signed gift letter naming the giver and the relationship
- You’ll need to show where the money came from and that it reached you
- A quiet e-transfer with no paperwork is what causes the delay, not the gift itself
Why the lender asks at all
Two reasons, and neither is about doubting your family.
The first is qualification. If the money has to be repaid, it is a debt, and a debt changes your ratios — sometimes enough to sink the approval. A lender that funds a mortgage on the basis of a gift, and later finds out you owe your parents $600 a month, has been given the wrong file.
The second is anti-money-laundering. Lenders are legally required to know the source of down payment funds. That obligation has been tightened in recent years, and it is applied to everybody, not just to people who look unusual. It is the same reason your own savings need a paper trail.
The part nobody tells you.
The gift letter is the easy part. The proof of source is where files stall. A lender can ask to see the funds in the giver’s account before the transfer — not just landing in yours.
If your parents moved money from an investment account, sold something, or brought funds in from abroad, that trail needs assembling too. It is entirely doable. It is not doable in forty-eight hours.
The target is 90 days of clean history before you apply, and an absolute minimum of 15 days before closing. Season the money early and this whole topic disappears.
What a gift letter has to say
- Who is giving, and their relationship to you
- The amount
- That it is a gift with no expectation of repayment — this is the operative sentence
- That the giver is not a party to the purchase and takes no interest in the property
- Signatures from the giver and from you
Most lenders have their own form. Use theirs, not a template off the internet — the wording matters and a rejected letter costs days.
The thing families get wrong
A gift on paper and a loan in practice is a real problem, and not only for the lender.
I’ve had files where parents said “it’s a gift” to me and “you’ll pay us back when you can” to their child. That is not a gift, and signing a letter saying otherwise is a false declaration on a mortgage application. I won’t submit it.
If it genuinely is a loan, say so. There are ways to structure family help that don’t involve pretending — a smaller gift, a co-signer arrangement, or waiting. The family purchase centre covers the options.
How much can be gifted
There is no cap. The entire down payment can be gifted on most insured and conventional programmes, provided everything else in the file qualifies on its own.
What the gift does not do is fix income. If your income won’t support the payment, a larger gift reduces the mortgage but doesn’t change the ratios enough on its own — and no lender approves a payment you can’t carry.
What to check
- Whether your lender’s own gift letter form is required
- Whether the giver can evidence the source of the funds, not just the transfer
- If funds are coming from outside Canada, how long that will take — assume longer
- That the money is in your account, seasoned, well before closing
- That everyone involved understands it as a gift, in the same terms
What to do next
Tell me a gift is coming at the first conversation, not at the document stage. It changes nothing about whether you qualify and everything about how smoothly you close.
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Answered by Rajiv Verma, Mortgage Broker · Mortgage Architects — FSRA Brokerage Licence #12728 · Licensed in Ontario · Office 289.505.0631 · Direct 647.291.7116
General educational information only. Individual lender requirements for gifted funds vary and can change. Position stated as at August 2026.